Face your own fear of not getting your goal, and the threat of its lack can no longer bother you. Then it will come effortlessly.Click to tweet
One thing that I’ve realized is vitally important is to actually face your own fear of not having the goal.
There are essentially two ways of dealing with such a fear.
The first way is that you construct nice-sounding stories about why you’ll definitely get the goal and don’t need to fear. “The Universe supports me, so I will definitely get my goal.” “The Universe fulfills all my desires.” “I deserve to have my goal, so I will get it.”
These are all stories that we construct to make ourselves feel better.
But the problem is that the fear is still there, in the background. Sometimes you forget the nice-sounding story, and you have to rush to get it back in place before the fear overwhelms you.
It’s just a façade. It’s not being real with yourself.
The approach I suggest instead is to actually face your fear. Totally accept the possibility of not getting the goal, and come to terms with it. Make it totally okay that you don’t get it.
Now most people think that if you were to do this, then there’s no reason for the Universe to give you the desired goal. But that’s not true at all.
When you can totally accept not having the goal, then do you know what happens? When the mind says, “What if I don’t get this goal?” you simply respond, “That’s perfectly okay.” It doesn’t bother you in the least.
And so when that happens, the mind will start introducing that as a possibility, because now there’s no point. The mind will only introduce ideas that evoke an emotional reaction from you.
And therefore, you are no longer holding the picture of the lack of your goal, which means that naturally, you will hold the picture of having your goal, and therefore will receive it rapidly.
But again, don’t face the fear as a way of getting the goal, knowing the above. You have to actually face the possibility of not getting that goal at all.
When you’ve dropped that fear, though, then the goal will come with an effortless thought.
If you’d like to explore how you can drop your own fear, and therefore achieve your goals far more easily, then I invite you to schedule a free 20-minute strategy session with me. Just go here to do that now: www.cocreationcoaching.org/strategy